Dear Tesha....

Dear Tesha,

I'm in a long distance relationship with my high school sweetheart. I get to see him maybe a few times per month. Almost everyday he tells me how horny he is but sometimes when he comes home, I'm just not in the mood. I want to do something special, something different for him while he's out of town so that when I see him again he knows that I want him as much as he wants me. I'm thinking about sending him a freaky text message, but I don't know what to say and I'm nervous. Help what do I get started?

XOXO
Sexting in GA


I can totally relate to being horny in a long distance relationship. When you are ready and in the mood, they aren't there. But when they get in town and are hot and heavy, you're out of the mood because you've waited so long. Women are finicky creatures (trust me), but in order to 1. do something special for him and 2. put yourself in the mood for him. Try sending him sext messages. Here's how to get started:

• Start the text message subtly. Send him a message telling him how much you miss him and wish he was there. You don't want to just jump right in and say, "I wanna fuck" because he won't be able to do anything about it any time soon. Slow and steady wins the race.

• Next empathize with him. Tell him that you are as horny as he is and can't wait until you can see him again. This will get his attention and start to set the tone of the messages to follow. I can almost guarantee that once you tell him how horny you are, he's already going to start sending you sexual messages. Don't be alarmed, match him for his every text.

• You want to let him know what type of things runs through your mind when he is not there. Basically, you want to get your foreplay going...mobilely. Tell him you like it when he does [insert action] to you and that when he does it, it makes you feel so good. Tell him you like it when he puts his tongue and lips on your [neck, back, legs, etc] and can't wait until he can do it again.

• Recall the last time you guys had sex; the place, time, emotions, details that stand out, maybe a joke. Send him the details of your last sexcapade, romance novel style. Be descriptive! You want to be so detailed, he can literally see each and every word in his mind.

• Now that you have him excited with every text you send him, let him know that the conversation is making you horny and that you are touching yourself thinking about it (even if you aren't). Most guys get more turned on by the fact that you are turned on. This action will push him to the edge to the point that when he sees you again, expect to be busy getting busy.

• Wait about 5 minutes before you send him the last message. Which could be a picture message of you in your skivvies!

• Expect him to respond about 3-5 minutes later....relieved. End the messages with smiley faces and I love yous and prepare yourself to be Sext Away the next time he comes into town
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Hope this helps! Happy Adventures in sex!

♥ Tesha


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